Saturday, January 19, 2013

Sincerity must be exist in

Tell me how to accept this situation,
when I am dare to face up and growth,
when I start to understand and accept the condition,
when I come to realize that it is forbidden,
when I start to leave and try accepting to leave the one who have been being heartily,
when the sincerity is being trained,
Yes I am ready to leave, but yet this heart is able to throw away the feeling,
how can this mind and heart are so complicated.

That girl has so much words to shout out,
that girl has so much senses to disgorge,
that girl has so much questions which are needed to be answered,
she says she tired,
she is tired to stand and holding bullshit words,
no, she is not that tired, she does not give up exactly.
I do not know what is being in her mind.

I do not know what should be typed here, but she said she can not stop to type till her heart feels fine,
it must be the last day of typing about her feeling,
all she knows that he betrayed off all,
she told me that it must be the last time,
she will not ever remind, she will do deny, she will stand, step on her line.
Is that mean she has broken heart?
I tried to guess it and tell her, she answer no.. no it is not.

He said he loves her, he said he hearts her, he said he wants to spend the life with her, he said he want to grow up his children and have happy family with her.
Yes, he is.
She said that he had been trying to prove it, but he did not do anything honesty, all she knows that he betrayed for everything.
Till that thing happen again and she let her own self to avoid and go away from him.
She felt played for this long time pass by, but he did not mean that.
Yes she left him, she could not even forget him, then how dare she said that she was able to leave him.
She was trying, was dying to do that, God blessed she could accept and sincere, even yet full successfully.

It was January 16th 2013
He contacted and told her in all of sudden that he could not even not think about her,
even she never had words again like before she has been being always in his heart all the time,
it could not be denied that she was happy to get his confession, but
she was too much hurt, he made her so fragile, yes he is betrayal, best ever betrayal,
she just gave a short smile through text without much words and hold out not to fall and be weak in front of him,
giving rude words to answer his question and statement is her camouflage,
pretending that she is fine and alright,
pretending that she is strong and having some power to handle this,
pretending that everything is in line even without him.

I do not know what kind of girl she is,
all I know she can handle and fight it.

It was January 17th 2013
Still she has been trying to reach the full sincerity.
A phone rang, it is her cell phone, together alert of short messages

"Stay away from him, never contact him again..."

He gonna get married next month, in first week of February.
The single parent of one daughter who is being with and living together with him told her, that woman said that she has big jealousy to that girl, the woman told that she is having his baby in her womb,
it is about two months now.

That girl shocked, yes she did.
That girl was not jealous, that girl was like strong that moment, she just took a long breathe and little smile.
Seems sincerity has been staying inside of her.
She remind something but she did not tell it, just gave a little smile.
He was really not be able to be trusted.
Those were more than enough to know, she DO disappointed. I could not even imagine what has been being inside her.

I do not know what kind of girl she is,
all I know she can handle and fight it.

Why that woman was so worried to lose him, they are living together, close near to reach each other also she is having his baby in her womb, how could be that woman so jealous and hate her? she did nothing, that girl did not do anything. She never contacted him, nor asked him back.

The reason of why she left him before was about understanding that woman's feeling also.
She realize, nothing that could be given to him, but it was not that reason for truth,
long distance was not the reason of leaving him also,
they were trying to be and everything has been planned, but on the way reaching, he failed for temptation, which was quite really hurt her.
That girl was so in fragile, it was not just once he betrayed her and got her apologize.

Maybe it is the final time when she has to move on and get off from this rough part of life, a seed of life is growing in that single parent of seven years old daughter's womb, pregnancy before married,
that is quite hurt for that girl for uncountable times, but everything must be in line.
That girl has huge resentment probably, but a bad feeling should not be kept in.

Keep peace within heart is better, then bring it to another will be best,
yes, she is.
All she want is peacefully.

A Walk to Remember 
"Love is never boastful nor conceited,
it is never rude or selfish,
it does not take offense and it is not resentful.
Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins, but delights in the truth,
it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope.. and to endure.. whatever comes."

Also it is does not mean possess, to know someone whom we love happy there is more than enough,
even it is hard, but it has to be tried.
She said happily is not about we get everything that we want, sincerity is being exist in every each of life, while you realize it, happiness is in yours.

That was just a little story of life, four years of long distance relationship creating precious lessons of sincerity.


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